out of hand

get out of hand AND get out of control — отбиться от рук; выйти из повиновения; выйти из-под контроля; пойти наперекосяк (конктекст); ~ распуститься

Example 1: Things got a little out of hand (= the situation stopped being controlled) at the party and three windows were broken. (Cambridge Advanced Learner's Dictionary)
Example 2: In my first year at college my drinking got completely out of hand. (Cambridge Advanced Learner's Dictionary)

spin out of control — выйти из-под контроля, стать неконтролируемым
› If activities or events spin out of control, they change very quickly and in an uncontrolled way:

Example: The country's economy seemed to be spinning out of control. (Cambridge Advanced Learner's Dictionary)

[отбиться от рук]
take/have sth/sb in hand — держать под контролем, контролировать

Example: The police have the situation in hand (= under control).(Cambridge Advanced Learner's Dictionary & Thesaurus)
Example: How come there's a problem? I thought you had everything in hand (= arranged and organized).(Cambridge Advanced Learner's Dictionary & Thesaurus)
Example: Their youngest child needs taking in hand (= they should start to control her) if you ask me(Cambridge Advanced Learner's Dictionary & Thesaurus)